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I’m wondering . . . was it even a good idea to re-enter each other’s lives, knowing our history?

I want to enjoy the time we have left together, but lately I feel so sad every time I’m around him.

I’ve learned that when I am upset, I have to stay quiet, take a few deep breaths, and let myself calm down before I can come back to it. He wants to work it out now!

I have this nagging suspicion that the reason I can’t find love is because I don’t know how to fall in love.

She constantly texts with and hangs out with people from work, excluding me from everything.

Personally I feel like I’m in a better state of mind and don’t think I’d ghost again.

I don’t want to tell him to stop talking to her because I know that doesn’t lead to anything good, but I also would like his ex to respect my comfort level and relationship with him.

My boyfriend and I dated for three years, and he just moved to the other side of the world to continue his studies.

Do genders really have distinct styles when it comes to romance?

To me, it feels like our story isn’t done yet. He and I went through so much together, and I could really see a legitimate future with him.

She lives in Florida and he lives in New York.

Here we are, at the last and best times of our lives, and I am . . . totally isolated and alone.

There was more to this bachelorette party than just hanging out at the casino bar.

I’m sure we’ve both changed; people’s mind-sets change a lot from their late teens to early 20s.

I tried to kiss him but he denied me, saying he would like to kiss me but had concerns about being roommates.

He goes days without acknowledging me. I’ve told him this is an issue for me, and he apologized and said he needs to be better about it.

You’d think as we get older, we’d learn to handle breakups like adults.

If we do that within the year, are we moving too fast?

I feel like I can’t ever really “love” again. As if that part of me is just ... irreparably broken.

Fast forward five years with no communication and boom — there he is.

In hindsight, I’m rethinking that agreement.

I suggested counseling and he said he does not believe it will help.

Honestly, I’m just very opposed to the idea of seeing a picture or two, a witty bio, and then deciding if I want to take a chance on a guy.

This person is someone I hope will always be in my life; he is a friend I strongly value and respect. But as each day passes, it becomes harder and harder to pretend like these feelings for him aren’t there.

We caught up and I started to have feelings again.

Our plans get canceled at the last minute because the child is having trouble.

I am now in the early stages of pregnancy; he had been telling me that he was getting divorced, so I stopped taking my birth control.

What are your thoughts on trying to date people with kids when I don’t have any?

Honestly, at first these just seemed like random one-offs but as time goes on I realize that it’s just his personality, maybe one part of himself that he hides at first.

For some reason I am still holding out hope that he might come to his senses and choose me.

Obviously, I want to shake this as soon as possible.

I am extremely sad and conflicted because my heart wants to stay and give it a try because he is an amazing person, but my head is telling me that this obstacle is more than I can handle.

I was in a relationship for two years with a married man. I know ... very bad, not awesome.

I fell fast for a transfer student from Italy. But now he says he doesn’t want a girlfriend.

It hurts me to think about how I felt when we first saw each other — and that we aren’t together now.

His non-response to my text hurt my feelings a bit. I would’ve appreciated some acknowledgment, even if he is still processing.

I asked him to shut the door for good on the idea of us getting back together so I could move on, but he said he couldn’t.

If it weren’t for the illness, they would probably still be together.

After a couple of months, I could feel myself falling in love with him, but that feeling seems to have plateaued.

The thing is, technology let us go from a short-term but emotionally intense near-relationship to pretending to be “friends” who text and email overnight.

I still don’t know if it’s even a date in her eyes, and I don’t know how to go about finding out how she feels.

He’s still texting me. Do I tell her?

He’s so vaguely indifferent (or, as my friends call it, “sexy and mysterious”) that I only ever see him when we run into each other in the city.

Is it normal for me to think about things like kids or ask questions about the subject, even though we haven’t been together long?

Recently he unblocked me and tried to add me back on Facebook, liked some of my pictures, and messaged me. I have yet to add him.

And I’m not talking about sex.

We both agreed it was only an innocent kiss that didn’t mean anything, but we don’t want to tell Amy.

He ultimately broke up with me over FaceTime and ended up basically ghosting me.

They joke my wife’s friend is her “real wife.”

Recently I’ve found myself thinking back to someone who hurt me almost a year ago.